hehehe i thought the girl was your mother, submissive kpo pala :] sorry huh pala comment ako hehehe. gnito tlga ako, i try to read lahat ng post hindi yung dumadaan lang pero hndi man lang ngbabasa, db? how could you get to know ung ngsusulat, khit puro letters lang mkikita mo, kahit pano salamin pa rin to ng isnag blogista :] take care!

submissive? mmm.. i will qualify that. if that’s how you describe a person who believes that you can make a point without yelling, much less raising your voice, perhaps i am submissive.

when my ex nags, like most women do, she keeps on repeating all the things that she had already said x10 raise to infinity haha! In times like this, you need a juicy fruit gum, if none, freshmint can work as a good alternative. Mentos, however, is the best choice haha .

going back, when she nags, i listen (very carefully while composing my counter attacks haha. no, i just listen), when i got her point already, i make an effort to hug her (syempre ayaw nya pa-hug kasi nga galit, so you struggle, pag ayaw pa rin sampalin mo hahaha) or if you cannot, simply touch her hand or comb her hair with your fingers and say, “i got your point already, enuf na at baka magka wrinkles ka”. say sorry even if you really are not haha.

two days after or maybe a week, when she seems calm and tame, time to make your counter attacks haha. but do so in a least offensive way and in a normal tone of voice so as not to provoke her to bark and bark again like a furious labrador haha.

or you simply forget about making the counter attack. forget about making your point even if, to your opinion, you have a better reason. remember that staying silent does not mean a defeat. let is pass pero wag mong kimkimin at wag mong ipunin.